Tuesday, November 26, 2013

Living Conditions for Foreigners

Whenever I used to visit, I would always be surprised by how many foreigners I saw. I would see people with different skin than me or different hair color or eye shape. Even though this is totally normal in America, in Libya it is normally rare. Libyans are not the most hospitable to foreigners. When I told my mother that I befriended a Palestinian girl at my job, my mom’s nose literally went up in the air. While all Muslims will tell you to love your brethren, when the time comes, Libyans will always prefer their own kind. Except for when it comes to the people that they employ. Almost all of the jobs that do not have any pre-requisites, like a grocery store bagger or a fruit seller, are taken by foreigners. I would say about ninety percent of those workers are from Bangladesh or Egypt. I have noticed that Libyans, while they may seem like simple desert nomads, are extremely proud to the point of not wanting to take any job that is considered 'low-class' (direct quote from a relative). When Libyans do not take these jobs, people from other countries come in and take them. Also employers would rather pay an Egyptian three dinars an hour rather than a Libyan five for doing the same job. The problem with this is not only does the Egyptian get a much lower salary; their living conditions are so poor.

It is so terrible; I don't even know where to begin. You will often see a small house without a door that is supposed to be used as a shack or a storage room, but inside of it will be 3 to 6 mattresses laid on the floor for migrant workers to sleep on. They share a small bathroom with an inconsistent water supply and the house has no electricity. On top of this, the areas they live in are incredibly unsafe. Not only are there rabid dogs on every corner, there are people who like to take advantage of these workers. When my dad hired some workers to get our stuff from storage into our house, the workers did their work and then my dad drove them back to where he found them. Then, there was a group of suspicious looking men lurking around the area, so the workers all began to beg my dad to drive them up a little more up the road. They said that those groups of men constantly harass them, stealing the money that they made from the entire day. These workers are obviously undocumented, so they have no consistent salary and there is no one to ensure their pay. If they make one hundred dollars for a whole day's work, it can be stolen within a two minute uncomfortable exchange at a shady street corner.

We also had a maid for a short while work at the house to help my mom clean up some things. When she was waiting for her driver to take her home, the driver pulled up to the front of our house and asked for 'the dark-skinned one'. My uncle was confused so then the driver clarified, "the slave". I should also mention that this maid was Libyan. However, she was from southern Libya and had dark skin. So there is a conflict not only with Libyans and foreigners, but also Libyans from metropolitan areas (as metropolitan as a city in sub-Saharan Africa can get) with Libyans from less developed areas.

This complete lack of respect is everywhere. At the school where I work, everyone uses the phrase "Banlga" or "Bangladeshi" to refer to the janitors. They reduce an entire nationality and country's whole culture to a cleaning job. There is nothing wrong with a cleaning job, but there is something wrong with Libyans associating people from Bangladesh as nothing more than just someone who cleans up after them. I was having lunch with a friend one day at work. When I was throwing my trash away, my friend stops me and says, “Just leave it on the table, the Bangla will get it,” as if they had nothing better to do than to throw away my trash. Not would I be making him do more work, but I would also be acting as if it was a huge inconvenience for me to throw away a wrapper and a paper plate and that this act would be better suited for someone of Bangladeshi descent.

These photos of people in the back of cars started out as a joke. My sisters and I laughed at how many parents actually let their infant children stand in the back of pickup trucks on the freeway. Then, I eventually noticed that most of the people in the back of trucks were the workers. They are just thrown into the back like sheep, as if they don't even deserve to sit in the front. I'm not sure if the employers had a bunch of stuff in the actual sitting area of the car, but I'm pretty sure they could have squeezed if they wanted.
People in Libya have a problem with recognizing other people. They see race, color, nationality, and sex before they actually see a person with a personality, opinions, and ideas. Hopefully once the country starts become more stable, foreigners and migrant workers will finally be able to sit in the front with their employer. Hell, maybe they'll even be the ones driving. 






These are a bunch of children just enjoying the view.

Censoring

Note: This is an old post from November 2013 that I forgot to publish.

Whenever I get bored and I've already been on the internet for a good three straight hours or when I've already taken my second nap of the day, I'll turn on the TV and more often than not, I'll end up watching something I've already seen before, but without all the scenes that the television companies think are inappropriate. I'm always surprised to see what they do end up skipping. Here's a list of the things I've noticed that are censored:

-obviously sex scenes, it skips from a couple about to kiss, to the next day when someone is getting out of bed with wild hair
-whenever anything to do with body parts is mentioned in a sexual way
-the words 'gay' or 'homosexual' or 'lesbian'
-the word 'shrine'
-'Jewish', 'Jew', or 'Judaism'
-'pork'
-you know that part in movies where a normal looking woman is eventually convinced to try something on from her best friend's closet even though, no way! she'd never wear a dress that short? well they cut that out.

Keep in mind that the words, 'fuck', 'shit', 'damn', and 'ass' are rarely ever cut out. Neither are violence scenes. With this rationale, mentioning a Jewish person is worse than saying 'fuck'. Showing a gay couple on the screen is worse than a man attempting to saw his own leg off. It's weird to see what the television companies choose to make exist, or rather, not exist to the Arabic speaking people. I was the most shocked by the fact that anything to do with homosexuals or Jewish people were not even allowed to be mentioned, almost as if these people do not exist in the world. The movies and television shows are censored to protect the minds of the supposedly innocent Muslim community, to the point of enabling an enormous amount of ignorance.
I've always noticed this thing with people here. They put up this intensely holy front all the time. Even mentioning, "Oh golly gee, Leonardo DiCaprio sure did look good then," will get a response like, "yeah but we should stop talking about this, it is forbidden in the eyes of God." I am not even allowed to express my shameless attraction for Titanic-era Leonardo without my cousin quoting a Qur'an verse. It's a whole new level of prudence.

Monday, November 18, 2013

libyan characteristics

As my time here has almost reached a whole six months, I noticed that there were several things that Libyans tend to do that I never realized before I came here. Besides the whole different culture, the Libyan people have strange little habits that I guess the obnoxious kids at my work would post to twitter followed by hashtags like #libyanprobz #libyanlyf #youknowyourlibyanif #saharansunset #couscouscrystalz.

The first one is the way that they tell time. I have never once ever heard anyone here say the exact time. In America, you ask the time and they will look at their watch. They'll answer with like 6:23 or 9:49. Here, you just automatically round up to the nearest fourth. I have tried many times before to tell people the exact time down to the minute, and they would just get a confused look on their face. Quickly changing my mistake, I would round 3:21 to half past three. It's really not that important, but I just found it weird. I mean, in a way, it tells you about the way they spend their time here. Time is not really all that valuable. If anyone here tells you they will be back in fifteen minutes with your order, you should just leave and order pizza or take-out. If you receive an invitation for a wedding that starts at seven, never show up at seven because you will be the only one there. Everyone shows up an hour to two hours late. If you are expecting your co-worker to bring you copies of work within five minutes, you can bet that that co-worker will surely bring back your copies. However, it will not be without stopping along the way, catching up with a few friends, asking about their family trees, and how their mom is doing, eventually leaving the entire time to add up to fifteen minutes. You should just get the copies yourself. And God forbid you actually want to know when your semester starts for college. It seems like it would be a reasonable question, but people never know. They just reply with Inshallah ( God willing) or Allah Ghalab (God is the winner, only he know the answers). Those replies will really help you know when to get your school supplies ready. In the end, the minutes don't count. People are usually just so surprised that anything ever gets done, forget about being on time.

The second one is the fact that stores are only open at two sets of times during the day. Six days of the week, if you need anything, whether it be clothes or groceries or medicine, the shops will only be open from eleven to two in the afternoon. Then, at two, the shopkeepers will close, and go home. They will have a big lunch since that is the most important meal here, and they will take a long nap. They will then go back to their stores at six in the evening and stay open until around nine. The exception is on Friday which is the Islamic holy day. Rarely anything is open on Friday and if it is, they will only open in the evening.

The last one is the way that they tell ages. If you ask anyone how old they are, you should know that they are adding an extra year. For Libyans, the second that January first comes around, everyone suddenly ages by a year. Instead of actually using their real birth date, Libyans use the new year as the way to tell their age. It's as if everyone was already born one year old. So if you come to Libya (I wouldn't advise it.) , just add an extra year to however old you are. If you want me to psychoanalyze this one (Yes Seema! Please, please, we love it!!), I would say that since over half of the Libyan population is under the age of 30, everyone here is so quick to age. They see their age as the key to freedom. Enjoying your youth is hard here. Everything is so restricted and everything you do is constantly being judged. Your age is directly correlated with your eligibility to get married which is the ticket to leaving your parents which is considered freedom.

And now for an abrupt stop because my brain juices aren't from concentrate after grading a kid's paper who just spelled the word 'go' as 'gow'. 

Monday, November 11, 2013

very englihs bad no.2








This isn't incorrect English. I just like how relaxed he looks.


Monday, November 4, 2013

che-yeah

Che Guevara is everywhere here. He's on the back of cars, he's on the cover of books, on posters, and especially on the shirts of twenty-something year old college guys. This is part one of the series, seeing as there is still a whole lot more Che for us to love.






Deodorant: revolutionary smells here we're talking about 

Friday, November 1, 2013

very englihs bad no.1

English is everywhere here and just when you seem to need it most, it usually ends up being spelled really badly or with incorrect grammar. This are the few occasions when I happened to have my phone with me and owners of companies and stores didn't even bother to look up corrections before mass producing and printing. 

A really needy makeup counter.
At least one of the countries was spelled right.

The Scented Salamander: Who doesn't want to smell like a perfumed amphibian?

This one is hard to see, but it's an advertisement for a lasik center and the motto is: 'Your eyes secretarial between our hand.'

My favorite, the car that this sticker was on wasn't even a BMW.